Pray and Labor

As a result of our physical separation from God, there will always be a level of unknown about our journeys here on Earth. We just don't know what's going to happen to us in a week, or tomorrow, or even an hour from now. Certainly we have been given tools. The scriptures provide general guidelines and commandments that can help us at least go into the unknown with a higher level of confidence. Patriarchal blessings provide personal insights into the blessings we may receive through faithfulness over the course of our lives. But these do not fill in the gaps of our knowledge of what is to come. And sometimes we have great desires to know what may be to come. We'd like to know who we can share the gospel with. We'd like to know how we can find our eternal companion, or how we can nurture the relationship we may already have with them. Often we may know how to accomplish some of these things, but would just like that help in actually doing it.

Enos was one who desired to change, and to know what the Lord would have him do. We all know that he prayed for forgiveness. But that was not all that he did. What he did serves as yet another blueprint that can allow us to go forth into the unknown with greater confidence. He records, "And it came to pass that after I had prayed and labored with all diligence, the Lord said unto me: I will grant unto thee according to thy desires, because of thy faith" (Enos 1:12). 

Another scriptural example adds to this pattern. In the book of Alma, we read of Alma's travels and preaching, which led him to the wicked city of Ammoniah. Success didn't come as it had in Zarahemla or Gideon. But he was not deterred. Mormon records, "Alma labored much in the spirit, wrestling with God in mighty prayer, that he would pour out his Spirit upon the people who were in the city" (Alma 8:10). 

Enos wanted to know. Alma wanted to do. What they did to accomplish what they wanted was the same. They prayed, and then they labored. Prayer is the time when we make the determination, together with our Father, to do what is necessary to accomplish what we'd like to, or to learn what we need to know. But it is when we stand and go forth that we qualify ourselves for the fullness of that accomplishment or knowledge. That is faith in its intended form: prayer and labor.

Through Nephi, the Lord gave us insight into the importance of involving the Lord in our pursuits prior to action. "I say unto you that ye must pray always, and not faint; that ye must not perform any thing into the Lord save in the first place ye shall pray unto the Father in the name of Christ, that he will consecrate they performance unto thee, that thy performance may be for the welfare of thy soul" (2 Nephi 32:9). Prayer allows for perspective. Prayer allows for the opportunity to align our will to His. Prayer allows for last minute enlightenment before we begin to act. We lose out on the fullness of the Lord's aid if we seek to act without first going to Him in prayer. 

But the opposite is also true. Just the fact that we have prayed does not ensure that our problems will be magically fixed. We will not just immediately receive the knowledge that we desire, or be able to figure out how to accomplish that hard task we need help with. In truth, prayer really only goes as far as we are willing to act. Just as "faith without works is dead" (James 2:17), so is our prayer lacking in full worth if we don't take that step to accomplish that which we desire. The Lord has asked us to "be anxiously engaged in a good cause and do many things of [our] own free will" (D&C 58:27). And so we must seek to act.

So just as Enos and Alma, we must use prayer as the preparation, and then take the leap of faith. His promise for us is that if we will labor with our might, even without knowing fully what is it that we are to do, He will bless us accordingly. "And he said unto the first: Go ye and labor in the field,and in the first hour I will come unto you, and ye shall behold the joy of my countenance" (D&C 88:52). We know that Nephi, having received the command to obtain the brass plates, prayed, received visitation from angels, and had tremendous trust that the Lord would help him. Even still, he had to take the step of faith to head back into the city "not knowing beforehand the things which [he] should do" (1 Nephi 4:6). It was his willingness to act that allowed the blessing to come--Laban was delivered into his hands, and he was able to accomplish that which he and the Lord desired. The same is true of the knowledge that we desire. The Lord told Hyrum Smith, "If you desire, you shall have my Spirit and my word, yea, the power of God unto the convincing of men" (D&C 11:21). But only if we act, "[putting our] trust in that Spirit which leadeth to do good" (D&C 11:12).

This pattern of praying and laboring is one which has a tremendous effect on us. It will help us build our faith. As we act on the promptings we receive and the desires we have, consecrated through humble prayer, we will surely receive that which we seek. And if it so happens that what we desire is not what the Lord would have us receive at that given time, He will give us the comfort that we are at least acting in faith. He will give us that assurance--that peace. "Peace I give unto," he said, "Not as the world giveth give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, nor let it be afraid" (John 14:26).

In closing, I'd like to share this poignant quote by Brigham Young. He said, "When you have labored faithfully for years, you will learn this simple fact--that if your hearts are aright, and you still continue to be obedient, continue to serve God, continue to pray, the Spirit of revelation will be in you like a well of water springing up to eternal life. Let no person give up prayer because he has not the spirit of prayer, neither let any earthly circumstance hurry you while in the performance of this important duty. By bowing down before the Lord to ask him to bless you, you will simply find this result--God will multiply blessings on you temporally and spiritually."

Fatherhood

I am not a father. Yet, I have seen throughout the course of my life examples of extraordinary fathers who have been an incredible influence on not only their own children, but everyone around them. The role of father is one that has been set up by the Lord, and is a key part of the plan of salvation. The Family: A Proclamation to the World says this of that role:

"By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection to their families." 

On this day that we take time to honor fathers, and their role and importance in the family, I would like to share some suggestions that the Prophet Ezra Taft Benson shared that fathers all over the world may increase the effect they have on their children in the area that it seems to be lacking most in our world today: the spiritual. As I do so, I wish to also honor my own father, who has be an incredible example to me of each of the suggestions given.

President Benson said, “With love in my heart for the fathers in Israel, may I suggest 10 specific ways that fathers can give spiritual leadership to their children."

1. "Give Father’s blessings to your children. Baptize and confirm your children. Ordain your sons to the priesthood. These will become the spiritual highlights in the lives of your children."

      Having a worthy priesthood holder is indescribably important for a family wishing to continue to progress spiritually, and take advantage of the abundance of opportunities that the gospel provides. My dad was always there. He baptized me. He ordained me to every office in the priesthood. His hands were on my head along with the Stake President as I was set apart as a full-time missionary. Every step along the path of my priesthood progression, my dad was there. Indeed, they represent some of the spiritual highlights of my life.

2.  "Personally direct family prayers, daily scripture reading, and weekly family home evenings. Your personal involvement will show your children how important these activities really are."

As we look for more examples of extraordinary fathers, we can find them rather easily in the Brethren of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. The testimonies of their children give us insight into how fathers can guide their children in the little tasks of keeping up spiritually. Of his father, Elder David Bednar's son said, "He has always gone to the real sources: the words of the prophets and the scriptures...[He] taught me to set goals and exercise faith. I want people to know that he is an ordinary man who can do extraordinary things because of the strength of the Lord. He is a living witness of the enabling power of the Atonement." Indeed, those daily moments of scripture study and prayer, along with weekly family home evenings, can be powerful moments of instruction, wherein a father can set a foundation for his children: a foundation of Christ. As was directed to the ancient Israelites: "These words...shall be in thine heart: and thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thy house" (Deuteronomy 6:6-7)

      3. "Whenever possible, attend Church meetings together as a family. Family worship under your leadership is vital to your children’s spiritual welfare."
   
      That same scripture from the Old Testament directs that we as parents, including fathers, should teach the words of eternal life in the home, as well as "when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up." There is certain power that comes when a priesthood holder can attend church faithfully with his family, and lead the way in doing so. The mothers of this Church are so very faithful and proactive in getting their little ones ready for meetings. What foundation can we lay in the minds and hearts of our children if we as men can exercise our priesthood, teaching our children "by the way" as we are proactive in assisting our wives in the task of prepping for church attendance? As I have looked back on my childhood and adolescence, I have realized how much I took for granted the blessing that it was to attend church with my entire family, with my mother and father leading the way. We shouldn't let that be withheld from our children because of laziness or pursuits in far less important endeavors on the Sabbath. 

   
      4.    "Go on daddy-daughter dates and father-and-sons’ outings with your children."

   
   5.   " Build traditions of family vacations and trips and outings. These memories will never be forgotten by your children."

   
      I consider myself to be as blessed as Nephi, in the sense that I was also born of goodly parents, who instructed me, and helped build my faith. Likewise, just as Lehi, my own father often "dwelt in a tent." Camping was (and still is when possible) our great family tradition. We took our trailer to the mountains, to the beach, and seemingly everywhere in between. It was there that we were able to build our unity as a family as we played sports, played board games, and especially as we were forced to be around each other in a very small pop-up trailer. Indeed, experiences like these will never be forgotten. As we strive for such experiences, we can experience the joy that the great King Benjamin describes: "For behold, [these families] are blessed in all things; and if they hold out faithful to the end they are received into heaven, that thereby they may dwell with God [and together] in a state of never-ending happiness" (Mosiah 2:41).

      6.     " Have regular one-on-one visits with your children. Let them talk about what they would like to. Teach them gospel principles. Teach them true values. Tell them you love them. Personal time with your children tells them where Dad puts his priorities."

      Elder Neil Andersen's children have spoken of the great strength they received by personal time with their father. His daughter said, "Daddy always made time for the children. For example, he took each one individually to breakfast with him once a month. He let us pick the place for breakfast and the topics we would talk about. We looked so forward to having his undivided attention." Many of the problems that our children have, especially as they get into their years of teen angst and rebellion--that time when we seem to feel that nobody understands us--can be solved as a humble and genuine father takes time out of his probably very busy schedule to give their undivided and full attention to the concerns that their children have. A small conversation, ending with a hug and one of the most powerful combinations of three word phrases known to man--"I love you"--can make all the difference in the lives of our growing children. 

   
      7.    "Teach your children to work, and show them the value of working toward a worthy goal."

      I remember a day when I was about fifteen when my dad came to me, and told me that one of the great regrets that he had in his life was failing to earn his Eagle Scout. He invited me in love to not make the same mistake, but instead to make it a goal to get mine. It took me to the last day, as I finished up my last merit badges a day before my 18th birthday, but I did do it. As I would look at the hard work necessary to keep going forward, and wonder if it was worth it, that invitation that he gave me would come up in my mind. He was there to help me during my Eagle Scout project, which turned into a lot more work than expected because of several setbacks. He was always there to keep me going, because he knew what the reward would be if I would just keep going. He was a rock, and the epitome of a principle Paul taught: "Wherefore lift up the hands which hang down, and the feeble knees; and make straight paths for you feet, lest that which is lame be turned out of the way; but let it rather be healed" (Hebrews 12:12-13). Such should be the constant attitude of fathers to their children.

   
      8.     "Encourage good music and art and literature in your homes. Homes that have a spirit of refinement and beauty will bless the lives of your children forever."

   
      The Lord told Joseph Smith, "Seek ye out of the best books words of wisdom; seek learning, even by study and also by faith" (D&C 88:118). He also told Emma Smith, "For my soul delighted in the song of the heart; yea, the song of the righteous is a prayer unto me, and it shall be answered with a blessing upon their heads" (D&C 25:12). These blessings are real, and I saw them in my home. We were encouraged to read, and to listen to music. My dad would play the piano and the guitar, and music has become something that he and I share, and it has been a blessing in my life.

      9.      "As distances allow, regularly attend the temple with your wife. Your children will then better understand the importance of temple marriage and temple vows and the eternal family unit."

      There are few things that we can teach our children that are more important than the eternal importance of the temple. It is there that families are bound for time and for all eternity. It is there that the more important blessings are promised and opportunities are provided. Eternal priorities may be set in the hearts and minds of our children as we attend with our wives. They will know that the goal for them is temple marriage. They will know that there is nothing more important in terms of our worship than to live worthily of a temple recommend. It is a lesson my parents have taught me, and one my dad continues to teach, as he serves weekly and faithfully as a temple worker.

      10.   "Have your children see your joy and satisfaction in service to the Church. This can become contagious to them, so they, too, will want to serve in the Church and will love the kingdom."

      

      Just as Lehi gained a great desire that his family should partake of the fruit he partook of, that fruit representing the gospel, and most specifically the Atonement, we as father's must do all that we can to provide our children with the opportunity to be successful in the gospel. At the end of the day that is what is most important. As we provide them with powerful examples of what faithful service is, they will have a blueprint. As we strive to live the gospel, we will be able to testify as Lehi: "As I partook of the fruit thereof it filled my soul with exceedingly great joy; wherefore I began to be desirous that my family should partake of it also; for I knee that it was desirable above all other fruit" (1 Nephi 8:12). And the Lord will help us accomplish it.

      I express a Happy Father's Day to all you fathers, and especially my own, and pray that you will continue to guide your families toward that goal of eternal life.

Pondering

When the Savior made His visit to the people of the ancient America's, He taught them, He healed them, He sat with them. When the first day of His visit was near its end He surveyed the state of the congregation before Him, and said, "I perceive that ye are weak, that ye cannot understand all my words...Therefore, go ye unto your home's, and ponder upon the things which I have said, and ask of the Father, in my name, that ye may understand" (3 Nephi 17:2-3). We live in a time that busy and loud. It is often hard to get away from the bustle and the noise of everyday life, and to find peace in their midst. Sometimes we even impose these distractions on ourselves as we opt to plug into the distractions of social media, television, video games, etc. In a time of so much confusion and misunderstanding, these distractions can prove very harmful if they distract us from the promptings of the Spirit. Indeed, as the Savior said, we are weak, and often cannot understand the mysteries of God, and therefore must ponder.

Elder Hans Ringger said the following back in a 1994 General Conference: "This is the question we ask in uncertain times or when confronted with new challenges. We may answer with unreflective action, hoping to find solutions merely through results. Fortunately the Lord understands us better than we understand ourselves. The gospel teaches us first to ponder and develop faith. Only after we have honestly decided in favor of good, based on the gospel, can we bring forth righteous deeds. Active faith leads to good works. We will receive the strength from above to strive toward what is right."

In this era of confusion and distraction, the remedy is pondering. I will share 3 scriptural accounts that show just 3 of the specific benefits of taking time to step back and ponder.


"Ponder the path of thy feet, and let thy ways be established" (Proverbs 4:26).

Our nature as mortal beings with mortal bodies and incomplete knowledge ensures one important constant: we will mess up, we will sin, we will fall short. As such, humble recognition is required for us to begin to take the steps necessary to get back on the path and head for our main goal of eternal life. The oft-quoted first step of addiction recovery applies also in our entire sojourn in mortality: "The first step is [realizing] you have a problem." Often, it is only when we take a step back and ponder do we come to a complete enough recognition of our shortcomings to spark a desire to change. A deep reflection on the question "what lack I yet?" may be necessary, as Elder Larry Lawrence described:

"We came [to Earth] to learn and improve until we gradually become sanctified or perfected in Christ. The journey of discipleship is not an easy one. It has been called a 'course of steady improvement.'As we travel along that strait and narrow path, the Spirit continually challenges us to be better and to climb higher. The Holy Ghost makes an ideal traveling companion. If we are humble and teachable, He will take us by the hand and lead us home."

The Spirit will teach us as we take time to ponder our current course in mortality with a desire to see where we can improve. Thus, as Proverbs says, our ways can be established. Pondering is great for re-evaluating ourselves.


"For it came to pass after I had desired to know the things that my father had seen, and believing that the Lord was able to make them known unto me, as I sat pondering in mine heart I was caught away in the Spirit of the Lord, yea into an exceedingly high mountain, which I never had before seen, and upon which I never had before set my foot" (1 Nephi 11:1).

It was in this high mountain (it is helpful to remember that Hebrew symbology often uses mountains to represent the temple) that Nephi received not only an explanation if his father's dream, but also a vision of the immediate, near, and not so near future of his people, as well as the coming of the Savior. Truly his pondering allowed him to be open to not just the revelation he was seeking at the moment, but also that which would inspire him to teach and lead for the remainder of his mortal life. As he would later record, "We talk of Christ, we rejoice in Christ, we preach if Christ, we prophesy of Christ, and we write according to our prophecies, that our children may know to what source they may look for a remission of their sins" (2 Nephi 25:26).

Indeed, if we would take the time to ponder on the things we've learned, and as we seek for greater understanding of those things, the Lord will teach us. He will show us what it is we should know, and what we should to do, in order to have the spiritual confidence to move forward. Pondering is great for receiving revelation and direction.


"And it came to pass that Nephi went his way towards his own house, pondering the things upon which the Lord had shown unto him. And it came to pass as he was thus pondering--being much cast down...behold, a voice came unto him saying: Blessed art thou, Nephi, for those things which thou hast done" (Helaman 10:2-4).

This Nephi, a descendant of the first, received in his moment of ponderance something that many of us find ourselves lacking in our day to day lives. As he thought about his calling as a minister, he became overwhelmed. His efforts had been constant, his diligence exemplary, and yet the people chose to reject him. Surely we have all had moments when we have tried our very best and given all that we have, and yet the results have been less than satisfying. Sometimes this lack of success leads us to wonder if it's worth it to keep trying at all. Our loving Heavenly Father understands how hard our lives can seem at times, and is ever willing to give us what He gave Nephi:

Encouragement.

Just as Nephi pondered the promises given him, and the unshakeable testimony that he possessed, if we can learn to turn our thoughts to God in moments of apparent failure, He will let us know that it is worth it. That we shouldn't give up. That He's proud of us. In His way He'll tell us, "Blessed art thou, for those things which thou hast done." Truly, pondering is great for encouragement.


It is important that we ponder. Pondering allows us to put things into perspective. Our lives are often chaotic and confusing and fast-paced and downright hard. It's important to take time on a daily basis--take a timeout! Take a step back from all the chaos to deeply meditate what's happening around us and why. If we can do that, things will be a lot less stressful--it'll be a lot harder for us to question God's intentions with us. Why? Because when we ponder life, love, and the gospel, we are humbly inviting the Spirit to help us understand.

The late Elder Richard G. Scott wrote, "Find a retreat of peace and quiet where periodically you can ponder and let the Lord establish the direction of your life. It may seem difficult to find time to meditate with the daily pressures of life. Yet a moment of thought will confirm that no matter how fast you move forward, if you are on the wrong path, it will avail to nothing.”

If we can take that time, we will recognize our faults and make plans to correct them, we will find direction in spite of the chaos, and we will find the encouragement to press forward when it seems that things aren't going right.

Trust in the Spirit in Moments of Indecision

"And now, verily, verily, I say unto thee, put your trust in that Spirit which leadeth to do good--yea, to do justly, to walk humbly, to judge righteously; and this is my Spirit. Verily, verily, I say unto you, I will impart unto you of my Spirit, which shall enlighten your mind, which shall fill your soul with joy; and then shall ye know, or by this shall ye know, all things whatsoever you desire of me, which are pertaining unto things of righteousness, in faith believing in me that you shall receive." 
-D&C 11:12-14

As imperfect beings, we often struggle to know what the Lord would have us do next. We sometimes find ourselves at certain crossroads, unsure of what direction we are to head to be the person that God would have us be. But as this scripture describes, we must first put our trust in the Spirit. Then we can have peace and joy, and then we will come to know the answers to those questions.


"Put your trust in that Spirit"

Several months ago a close friend recounted to me an experience he had which has changed my own understanding of how much the Lord trusts us to act on spiritual impressions when we are given them, when, of course, we put ourselves into a position to recognize them. He told me the following:

"I found myself at a type of moment of decision in my life. I had had stirrings about changing my major, and about changing the course of my life in general. I was dating someone long distance at the time, and it all seemed to be going well, but I also was having some serious second thoughts about that, and what it all meant in the course of my life. On a Friday, I came out of class and felt a distinct impression to do something that didn't at all make sense. I thought about it briefly, thinking it was just in my head, but I quickly realized that it wasn't. There was that burning in my chest that let me know that this was the Spirit. All that was left to do was to act on it. So I acted on that impression, which was to drive back home to California, without exactly knowing why. I recorded this as I went:

'This decision I have made to drive all the way from Provo to [California] may be one of the most important moments of my life. This may be the answer to my prayer of where the Lord would have me be, when he would want me to be there and with whom. Plus, the act of acting on the prompting that I received may become the foundation for how I recognize and respond to the promptings of the spirit for the rest of my life. Driving 600+ miles on a whim is not just something you do--it comes from a serious impression. '

"I would never have imagined what would happen that weekend, for the good and the bad, but I can tell you that the Lord taught me in His own way, and in the way that would best help me to know of His love and concern for me. My plans for my career were reinforced, and I think most importantly, He let me know in the most peculiar way possible (in my mind) that the person I was dating was not who I was supposed to be with. All of that because of a crazy impression, and my willingness in that moment to act on it."

He shared this with me also, a journal entry after the experience:

"A week and a half after this experience I remain grateful for the trust that the Lord put in me to give me this revelation, knowing that I would follow it. There's no better feeling of peaceful, humble satisfaction than that which comes from knowing that you've acted on the trusted prompting of our Father. That peace is Him letting us know that we've done well. Whenever I feel that, I imagine Him saying, 'I'm proud of you. You've done well.'

Now I wonder what more I'm capable of. Whatever that is, I know that the only way I can figure that out is by continuing to live worthily and to act on the promptings given. The Lord will then give me opportunities to figure that out."

If we will trust in that Spirit, even when we don't understand the why, we will quickly find out that the Lord has some incredible things to teach us. As always, he will do it in His own, perfect way.


"Which shall fill your soul with joy"

Despite the stories we hear from friends and other loved ones of their successes in following the promptings of the Spirit, we often struggle. Life is hard. The world, now more than ever in history, provides ample amounts of distractions which complicate our recognition of those promptings, leaving us wondering what we are to do next. In those moments, we often look back on our failures, with the skewed lens of retrospect, and we beat ourselves up. But Elder Jeffrey Holland said the following: "The past is to be learned from but not lived in. We [should] look back to claim the embers from glowing experiences but not the ashes. And when we have learned what we need to learn and have brought with us the best that we have experienced, then we look ahead and remember that faith is always pointed toward the future."

If we are to truly have faith, we must look forward. Even in those moments when we don't know what we are to do next, or where we are to go, if we will but have the faith to trust in the promptings that will inevitably come, the Lord will give us something that only He can give:

"Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid" (John 14:27). That promise is to all of us. That peace brings us joy, because we have a more perfect knowledge of the love that the Lord has for us. Our trust and our faith can then grow even further, and we will be able to overcome the challenges at hand.

Elder Holland said, "Don't give up. Don't you quit. You keep walking. You keep trying. There is help and happiness ahead....You keep your chin up. It will be all right in the end. Trust God and believe in good things to come."


"Then shall ye know all things"

As we act on impressions with trust in the Spirit, and as our mind and heart are enlightened and lifted by it, we come to acquire precious nuggets of knowledge that help us along. Ammon, one of the great missionaries of the Book of Mormon, declared, "Yea, he that repenteth and exerciseth faith, and bringeth forth good works, and prayeth continually without ceasing--unto such it is given to know the mysteries of God; yea, unto such it shall be given to reveal things which never have been revealed" (Alma 26:22). As we put ourselves in a position to receive impressions and recognize them, we gain the privilege of having important things revealed to us, such as have never been revealed. What is revealed?

Elder Dallin Oaks said, "A vision...When we have a vision of what we can become, our desire and our power to act increase enormously."

As we go about our lives, we must come to those moments of decision--those forks in the road of life that are ever pivotal in our eternal progression. As we trust in the Spirit, ever willing to act, we will be given those impressions which will shape our lives and help us make the right decision. Sometimes that includes letting us take the wrong path so we can make our adjustments and get on the right path with that peace and reassurance, like in the experience of my friend. (See this Mormon Message featuring Elder Holland on this topic, here.) But as we continue ever forward, we will be able to catch glimpse of what we can ultimately become. As Elder Oaks describes it, "a vision." With that vision in our minds, we can do all in our power to act and to work to become that person. If that means sacrificing certain attitudes or activities, we will do it. If that means letting go of what we want, in favor of what the Lord wants and requires, we will do it. We will do it because our trust in the Lord and in the Spirit will have become unbreakable.

We will do it, because our will will have become one with our Father's.

So trust in that Spirit. It will bring us joy, and it will help us to know what it is that God would have us to next, to continue on our journey to exaltation.

Whom the Lord Calls, the Lord Qualifies

It is one of the unique characteristics of the Lord's true and living Church that every member is called upon to serve in specific assignments for the edification of the Kingdom. Paul said, "And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists (patriarchs); and some, pastors (bishops) and teachers; for the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ" (Ephesian 4:11-12). No calling is more important to the Lord than another. He loves no more a Bishop or a Stake President or a Seventy than a Nursery leader or a Primary teacher or a Greeter. All callings have a place in Christ's church, and all will be blessed by magnifying such callings.

"For the body is not one member, but many...Now hath God set the members every one of them in the body, as it pleased him...And the eye cannot say unto the hand, I have no need of thee; nor again the head to the feet, I have no need of you. Nay, much more those members of the body, which seem to be more feeble, are necessary" (1 Corinthians 12:14,18,21-22).

Receiving a calling in the Church is a great responsibility, no matter what calling it may be. It is easy to feel inadequate when a call is extended to us, especially when it is something that we are unfamiliar with, or requires us to go outside of our comfort zones. Even when we are given calls in areas of apparent expertise, it is easy to feel that we can never live up to that call. The Lord, however, has promised that He will be right there with us as we serve. President Henry Eyring said the following on receiving callings, and being able to magnify them:

"To everyone, man or woman, girl or boy, who has been called or who will yet be, I give you my counsel. There are a few things you must come to know are true. I will try to put them in words. Only the Lord through the Holy Ghost can put them deep in your heart. Here they are: First, you are called of God...[second,] you are called to represent the Savior....[and third,] just as God called you and will guide you, He will magnify you." (I invite you to study his full talk, found here.) The Lord has desires to see us succeed. And for more reason than one.

As one studies the book of Doctrine & Covenants, especially the first quarter of sections, he or she quickly comes to the realization that the Lord in the early days of the Church first set about to call laborers to the vineyard. He called a fourteen year old boy named Joseph Smith, groomed him, and set him up as a prophet. He called a school teacher named Oliver Cowdery, guided him to Joseph's door, and he became one of the witnesses of the Book of Mormon; he later was present with Joseph when the Savior, and prophets of old appeared to them in the Kirtland Temple. He called a local minister named Sidney Rigdon, led him to the saints, and set him up to be a powerful teacher in the Church. The list goes on and on. In a revelation given through the prophet Joseph Smith to Sidney, the Lord said the following:

"Behold, verily, verily, I say unto my servant Sidney, I have looked upon thee and thy works. I have heard they prayers, and prepared thee for a greater work. Thou art blessed, for thou shalt do great things" (D&C 35:3-4). 

Sidney, indeed, accomplished great things, helping the Kingdom of God to be fortified in its infancy, allowing it to be nurtured and grow to what it is today. (Full disclosure: Sidney eventually fell away from the Church, falling into apostasy following the death of the Prophet, claiming that he was most deserving of being his successor as President of the Church. Scholars attribute this to brain damage from an act of persecution. His merits prior to that, however, are remarkable.) Each and every one of us has been called as well. There is not a single member that has not been guided in some way or another to the Church. Some of us may have been born into the gospel. I myself fall into that category, and it was the faith of my parents and the promptings of the Spirit which nurtured my own faith and has led me to a full conviction of the veracity of the Gospel. Others may be converts to the Church, having come to learn of its principles through friends, family members, and/or the full-time missionaries, and come to know of its truth through faithful action. However you have come to be a participant in the Lord's gospel, you have been led to it for 2 primary reasons:

1) The Lord has prepared for you to be challenged through service in the Church to grow and proceed toward exaltation, and 2) You have something unique to offer that will make you a key cog in the machine which goes forward building up the Kingdom. The bottomline: callings are for our own personal benefit and growth, and for the benefit and growth of the Church.


Personal Growth

It is ever important that we remember that it is our Savior, Jesus Christ, who has called us. He said to his apostles, "Ye have not chose me, but I have chose you, and ordained you, that ye should go and bring forth fruit, and that your fruit should remain; that whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it to you" (John 15:16). Knowing that He has called us helps in providing the motivation to accomplish what He would have us accomplish. We often think that when we are promised or called upon to bring forth fruit, we are being promised that others will be brought into the gospel or into greater gospel participation. But that fruit also includes our own growth in the gospel. 

In one of the most powerful MTC Devotionals I have ever heard, Elder Jeffrey Holland spoke of the introduction of the missionary handbook Preach My Gospel. The change came in the early 2000's as the Brethren saw a disturbing number of returned missionaries who were falling away from the Church. Elder Holland notes the following in the devotional:

"With this fundamental proposition...the message of Preach My Gospel to you tonight is, that the fundamental change that was made and how we Missionary work is, that we need to convert you, and then you figure out how to convert investigators." (Again, I suggest you read over the whole thing, as its application goes far beyond just missionary work. Find it here.)

Callings allow us incredible opportunities to grow personally. How can we not grow our testimony when we are called upon to be Sunday School teachers, and are to teach fellowmembers the pure doctrines from the scriptures and the words of the prophets on a weekly basis? How can we not grow our faith when we are called upon to serve as Ward Missionaries, and see miracles as we work with the full-time missionaries and aid in building the faith of investigators and less actives? How can we not improve our patience as we are called to serve in the nursery, or even worse still, the Young Men's organization? How can we not feel the love of our Savior and improve our capacity to love as He loves as we serve diligently as Home and Visiting Teachers, entering the homes of our fellowmembers and offering up our time to them? Surely our testimonies will grow, our faith will be strengthened, our patience and longsuffering will be fortified, and our ability to love everyone unconditionally will be developed as we strive to magnify our callings, and be of service to our fellowman. I have held numerous callings (which is by no means a sign of personal worthiness on my part, course), and have seen how each one brings new challenges. But each challenge is an opportunity to grow.

Paul spoke of these moments, and what it means to us and our relationship with our Father. "Despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou are rebuked of him: for who the Lord loveth he chasteneth....He [chasteneth] for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness" (Hebrews 12:5-6, 10). We can change that word chasten to calls. Some, indeed may think that a give calling feels like a punishment or at least a cruel joke. The Lord always has his reasons for giving us a calling. That last verse has certain power as we make that change, however.

"He [calls us] for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness."


Building up the Kingdom

It was the prophet Alma who cried out, "O that I were an angel, and could have the wish of mine heart, that I might go forth and speak with the trump of God...and cry repentance unto every people." With that poetic cry, the prophet quickly realizes the error in such thinking, though we may praise he zeal. He goes on,

"But behold, I am a man, and do sin in my wish; for I ought to be content with the things which the Lord hath allotted unto me....Seeing that I know these things, why should I desire more than to perform the work to which I have been called? I know that which the Lord hath commanded me, and I glory in it. I do not glory of myself, but I glory in that which he Lord hath commanded me; yea, and this is my glory, that perhaps I may be an instrument in the hands of God to bring some soul to repentance; and this is my joy" (Alma 29:1,3,6,9).

Is it our desire to be instruments in the hands of God? What does that mean? Having been blessed with at least a limited capacity in music, I often think of musical instruments. The guitar cannot pluck its own strings to make music. The piano cannot manipulate its own keys. It is the man holding the guitar--the woman seated before the piano with her gentle fingers on those keys which allows notes to be sounded, and music to be made. If we are to be the instruments, we cannot try to do that which we truly cannot do. We can't make the music of the work. It is only Christ that can do that. All we can do is put ourselves in a position to make that music sound clearly--our strings have to be taut, our pianos in tune. Only then can our music adequately sound as the Lord would have it sound. We must be obedient, and we must be diligent in order to adequately reflect the Light which comes from the Lord.

Each of us has been given certain abilities and talents. It would be very difficult for someone unfamiliar with music to serve successfully as a music director, or the ward organist (though I'm sure miracles have occurred allowing some person to succeed without such talents). Some may be given the ability to convey the principles of the gospel they've learned. They are well-suited to be a teacher in any class. Some may be given the ability to recognize when somebody needs help. These are the people who are usually called to be in Relief Society and Elder's Quorum Presidencies. Surely there are too many examples to list, but we may be given a calling which corresponds with those gifts. And we all have them: "For there are many gifts, and to every man [and woman] is given a gift by the Spirit of God" (D&C 46:11). We have peace that the Lord knows which gifts he has given us, and will put us into a position where we can best become a blessing in the lives of those around us.

It is also important to note that we need not feel inadequate when it seems that our talents don't match up with the rigors of an extended calling. Similar to what President Eyring said, President Monson has said powerfully and simply, "Whom the Lord calls, the Lord qualifies."

"If ye have desires to serve God, ye are called to the work. For lo, the field is white, already to harvest, and lo, he that thrusteth in his sickle with his might, the same layeth up in store that he perisheth not, but bringeth salvation to his soul" (D&C 4:3-4).

We have have been so blessed to know of the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ, therefore, have a great responsibility to do our part in building up the Kingdom. Though daunting, the Lord is working right by our side.

The Fundamental Importance of Sacrifice

Adam had already fallen, had made covenants with the Lord, and had received his instructions on the proper way to worship God outside of His presence. The Lord "gave unto them commandments, that they should worship the Lord their God, and should offer the firstlings of their flocks, for an offering unto the Lord" (Moses 5:5). Adam obeyed, and offered those sacrifices. The Book of Moses in the Pearl of Great Price provides the reason for the sacrifices offered from the beginning of man (and woman) on the earth until the ultimate sacrifice of Jesus Christ. An angel appeared to instruct Adam:
"This thing (the sacrifices) is a similitude of the sacrifice of the Only Begotten of the Father, which is full of grace and truth. Wherefore, thou shalt do all that thou doest in the name of the Son, and thou shalt repent and call upon God in the name of the Son forevermore" (Moses 5:7-8). The LDS Bible Dictionary, written by noted Bible scholar Robert Matthews, says this of those ancient, pre-Atonement sacrifices: "Whenever there were true believers on the earth, with priesthood authority, sacrifices were offered in that manner (the firstlings of the flock) and for that purpose (in a foreshadowing of the sacrifice of Christ)."

The question that follows (and which I had often asked when we learned of this Old Testament stuff) is so what? We don't do sacrifices anymore, so what's the point of knowing this? The answer: though the ordinance of sacrifice by the shedding of blood is no longer practiced, the necessity for our sacrifices has not gone away. They have but changed form.

Any discussion on sacrifice cannot possibly be complete without mentioning and honoring that Great and Infinite Sacrifice that makes it all possible. Amulek of Book of Mormon fame said this of that Great Atonement: "For it is expedient that there should be a great and last sacrifice; yea, not a sacrifice of man, neither of beast, neither of any manner of fowl; for it shall not be a human sacrifice; but it must be an infinite and eternal sacrifice....There can be nothing which is short of an infinite atonement which will suffice for the sins of the world" (Alma 34:10,12). That infinite sacrifice was made by a perfect being, who willingly took upon Himself not only the consequences of the sins of all humanity, but also its pains and sicknesses and sorrows in the Garden of Gethsemane; who endured scourgings and beatings and being spat upon; who was nailed to a cross with grace and forgiveness ("Forgive them [the Romans], for they know not what they do"); who willingly gave His life as a sacrifice which would allow for the children of God to come to the fold and lean upon His perfection in order to be justified, in order to return to live with the Father and the Son forever. There had never been so great a sacrifice, and there never will be another as great. There was no greater love than that, for Christ gave His life for His friends. 

Tad Callister in his doctrinal masterpiece The Infinite Atonement, said this: "In this spirit, the Savior’s sacrifice was the noblest gift of all because he who possessed all gave all. His spiritual, emotional, psychological, and life-giving powers were all laid on the altar of sacrifice without restraint. He gave until there was nothing left to give, nothing left to do—until he had fully drawn from that vast reservoir of virtues he possessed in order to work out an infinite sacrifice....Of all the acts of love, the atoning sacrifice far exceeds and transcends them all. No one has ever given so much to so many willingly.”

So what's next? Is the work finished? Are we to just sit back and let Christ's grace put us in a bubble of righteousness until He comes again?

Absolutely not. Elder Holland said, "Why would we believe--why would we think--that it would be easy for us when it was never ever easy for Him? In turn, how could we possibly bear any lasting, moving testimony of the Atonement if we've never known or felt anything of such an experience? We're proud to say we're disciples of Christ, and we are. But mark my word: that means you must be prepared to walk something of the path He walked. To feel something--something, a little--of the pain He felt. To at least occasionally, sometime during your [life], shed one of the tears of sorrow that He shed."

I don't know that any church's doctrine teaches directly that life will be easy as a result of that Atonement, but there are certainly some that teach that there is nothing left to do on our part. It is most certainly true that we are saved by grace. It is most certainly true that there is no other name by which we can be saved than that of Jesus the Christ--not by Joseph Smith or Thomas Monson or Ethan Crisp. It is by Christ, and Christ alone. But that same Christ that gave all in love for us does ask a lot of us. Not because He needs us to earn the sacrifice He gave in any way, shape, or form, but because He wants us to be prepared to inherit what He will. As the apostle Paul put it, "Then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together" (Romans 8:17). It is also true that other denominations accuse us Latter-day Saints of believing that we can and attempting to earn our way to salvation. One of the cited scriptures in this accusation (and one also misunderstood by many of us Saints) comes from the Book of Mormon, in 2 Nephi. The prophet Nephi describes his discipleship--his conviction of Christ, and the purpose for his efforts:

"For we labor diligently to write, to persuade our children, and also our brethren to believe in Christ, and to be reconciled to God; for we know that it is by grace that we are saved, after all we can do" (2 Nephi 25:23). And so comes the question: we is "all we can do?"

"All we can do" is repent. "All we can do" is sacrifice our will to know God, to please God. As the repentant father of King Lamoni cried, "I will give up all that I possess, yea, I will forsake my kingdom that I may receive this great joy...and I will give away all my sins to know thee, and that I may be raised from the dead, and be saved at the last day" (Alma 22:15,18). "All we can do" is to humbly recognize that the worldly things that we cling to are preventing our ultimate, eternal progression in God's kingdom, and to then lean on the grace of Christ to be justified, and then sanctified through Him. Nothing else can help us earn anything. Acts of service and acts of worship are really only a product of our repentance, and thus earn us nothing but the satisfaction to press on. When we reach the point where we serve selflessly, we have already qualified for that salvation. 

The prescribed way in which we show our Lord that we have truly repented and are willing to sacrifice our will for His is through covenants: baptism, confirmation, and temple covenants, including endowments and sealing. By making and honoring these covenants, His grace begins to have greater place in our lives. "Verily I say unto you, all among them who know their hearts are honest, and are broken, and their spirits contrite, and are willing to observe their covenants by sacrifice--yea, every sacrifice which I, the Lord, shall command--they are accepted of me" (D&C 97:8). This means that we sacrifice Sunday pleasure for Sabbath worship; we sacrifice foods and beverages that aren't in line with His established commandments; we sacrifice 10% of our earnings; we sacrifice our free time and pleasure to fulfill our callings and to serve His children in need. We must be willing to sacrifice anything for the greater good of the Kingdom of God and our own eternal progress. As the Lord commanded through Joseph Smith, "Thou shalt offer a sacrifice unto the Lord they God in righteousness, even that of a broken heart and a contrite spirit" (D&C 59:8). That broken heart and contrite spirit drives us to be willing to give up anything, if it means that the will of God will be done in us.

It is the Atonement which naturally allows us to be justified by grace. It is through our covenants and our zeal in keeping them that allow us to be sanctified by grace. Grace through Christ's sacrifice is always the means, but our own sacrifices greatly influence our receptiveness to and qualification for that grace. Of equal relevance is the infinite scope of the Atonement which allows us to continue to repent as we continue to make mistakes. Brother Callister said it like this: “As long as we have the slightest spark of repentance within us, Christ and his Atonement are standing in the wings, anxiously waiting to be summoned. The question is not whether the Savior paid the purchase price for all sins—He did—but whether we are willing to avail ourselves to his sacrifice by repenting."

Returning to Adam, though we no longer perform the same type of sacrifices that he did, the answer to its purpose given to him by the angel remains relevant in our modern types of sacrifices: "This thing is a similitude of the sacrifice of the Only Begotten of the Father, which is full of grace and truth.Wherefore, thou shalt do all that thou doest in the name of the Son, and thou shalt repent and call upon God in the name of the Son forevermore."

How to Keep the Sabbath Day Holy

This is a talk from a Stake Conference given by my mother, Dana Crisp. The talk was given in Temecula, California on April 11th, 2016.

There is a story told of a rafter of turkeys. These turkeys were going about their normal turkey business of walking around and gobbling. On this particularly sunny day, and all of a sudden, there appeared a great, majestic eagle. The turkeys gathered around and the eagle smiled. "Good morning, my friends. Today I will teach you all to fly," he said.

Some of the turkeys scoffed. "Fly?! We're far too heavy. We will never do it!" Others wondered curiously. "Might it be possible?" Still others, faithfully cried, "What are we waiting for? Let's go!" They followed the eagle out to the field.

The faithful turkeys stepped up, and the eagle showed them how it was done. He taught them about wings and air and the more technical points of flying. But most importantly, he taught them by showing them. He flew and the faithful turkeys tried their best. The curious turkeys joined in, and learned a great deal. Even the skeptical ones came forward and learned their share. After hours and hours, and ups and downs, the turkeys started to fly! The first group hovered in the air. Encouraged, the curious turkeys tried. And they flew too! The skeptical turkeys took courage, and despite their initial doubt, they too flew.

After hours of enjoying their new found skill, the eagle gathered them together. "I'm proud of you!" He said. "You listened with great faith. Others were hesitant, but saw your brothers and sisters succeed, and became examples to the rest as you succeeded. It’s time for me to go, but take courage, and fly!" He then flew off dramatically into the sunset, as eagles tend to do.

The turkeys were left alone and they shared their stories of faith and the joy of their newfound skill. What once had been their weakness had become their strength. With night coming swiftly, they decided it was time to head home.

And they went home….walking.

During this conference we will hear many things…maybe some difficult things that we need to change in our lives. I pray that the Spirit will be with us now and, throughout this conference that we can find ways to do better and not go home walking, but flying.

In Isaiah 58:13-14 the prophet tells us:

13 If thou turn away thy foot from the sabbath, from doing thy pleasure on my holy day; and call the sabbath a delight… and shalt honour him, not doing thine own ways, nor finding thine own pleasure…

14 Then shalt thou delight thyself in the Lord; and I will cause thee to ride upon the high places of the earth… for the mouth of the Lord hath spoken it.

I wonder how many of us, especially parents with children in the home, young or teenagers, really feel to “call the Sabbath a delight”? It takes a lot of planning and patience to keep children busy, to teach them to “not (find) their own pleasure” on Sundays.

Elder Nelson, in the April 2015 General Conference, spoke of making the Sabbath a delight. He referenced Exodus 31:13 which reads:

13 Speak thou also unto the children of Israel, saying, Verily my sabbaths ye shall keep: for it is a sign between me and you throughout your generations; that ye may know that I am the Lord that doth sanctify you..

Elder Nelson then said (quote):

“How do we hallow the Sabbath day? In my much younger years, I studied the work of others who had compiled lists of things to do and things not to do on the Sabbath. It wasn’t until later that I learned from the scriptures that my conduct and my attitude on the Sabbath constituted a sign between me and my Heavenly Father. (Exodus 31:13; Ezekiel 20:12, 20) With that understanding, I no longer needed lists of do’s and don’ts. When I had to make a decision whether or not an activity was appropriate for the Sabbath, I simply asked myself, “What sign do I want to give to God?” That question made my choices about the Sabbath day crystal clear.”(end quote)

I believe that the Lord recognizes that each family’s circumstance is different. For that reason, there is no official list of do’s and don’ts. But, He does expect us to do all that we can to keep His Sabbath day holy. Asking ourselves, as Elder Nelson said, “What sign do I want to give to God?” will keep us on track and help us to make our own list for our own family.

Of course, there ARE scriptural references to help up as well:

One example is in Doctrine and Covenants 59

9 And that thou mayest more fully keep thyself unspotted from the world, thou shalt go to the house of prayer and offer up thy sacraments upon my holy day;

10 For verily this is a day appointed unto you to rest from your labors, and to pay thy devotions unto the Most High;

12 But remember that on this, the Lord’s day, thou shalt offer thine oblations and thy sacraments unto the Most High, confessing thy sins unto thy brethren, and before the Lord.

13 And on this day thou shalt do none other thing, only let thy food be prepared with singleness of heart that thy fasting may be perfect, or, in other words, that thy joy may be full.

The Lord expects us to attend our meetings and especially, to partake of the sacrament. He expects us to repent; to fast and to pray. The blessing for obeying this commandment are clear: (continuing in Section 59)

15 And inasmuch as ye do these things with thanksgiving, with cheerful hearts and countenances…with a glad heart and a cheerful countenance—

16 Verily I say, that inasmuch as ye do this, the fulness of the earth is yours…

Who of us would deny ourselves, our children, our family the blessing of the “fullness of the earth”? That is one of the blessings of keeping the Sabbath day holy.

Also, regarding the things we should do on the Sabbath, President Spencer W Kimball said (quote)

“The Sabbath is a holy day in which to do worthy and holy things. Abstinence from work and recreation is important but insufficient. The Sabbath calls for constructive thoughts and acts, and if one merely lounges about doing nothing on the Sabbath, he is breaking it. To observe it, one will be on his knees in prayer, preparing lessons, studying the gospel, meditating, visiting the ill and distressed, sleeping, reading wholesome material, and attending all the meetings of that day to which he is expected. [Failure] to do these proper things is a transgression on the omission side.” (end quote)

As to the things we should NOT do on the Sabbath, many of the prophets have shared stories and experiences that should clarify for us what the Lord expects.

One such example was given by our dear Prophet, Thomas S Monson:

"…may I share with you an example of one who determined early in life what his goals would be. I speak of Brother Clayton M. Christensen, a member of the Church who is a professor of business administration in the business school at Harvard University.

When he was 16 years old, Brother Christensen decided, among other things, that he would not play sports on Sunday. Years later, when he attended Oxford University in England, he played center on the basketball team. That year they had an undefeated season and went through to the British equivalent of what in the United States would be the NCAA basketball tournament.

They won their games fairly easily in the tournament, making it to the final four. It was then that Brother Christensen looked at the schedule and, to his absolute horror, saw that the final basketball game was scheduled to be played on a Sunday. He and the team had worked so hard to get where they were, and he was the starting center. He went to his coach with his dilemma. His coach was unsympathetic and told Brother Christensen he expected him to play in the game.

He went to his hotel room. He knelt down. He asked his Heavenly Father if it would be all right, just this once, if he played that game on Sunday. He said that before he had finished praying, he received the answer: “Clayton, what are you even asking me for? You know the answer.”

He went to his coach, telling him how sorry he was that he wouldn’t be playing in the final game. Then he went to the Sunday meetings in the local ward while his team played without him. He prayed mightily for their success. They did win.

That fateful, difficult decision was made more than 30 years ago. Brother Christensen has said that as time has passed, he considers it one of the most important decisions he ever made. It would have been very easy to have said, “You know, in general, keeping the Sabbath day holy is the right commandment, but in my particular extenuating circumstance, it’s okay if I don’t do it.” However, he says his entire life has turned out to be an unending stream of extenuating circumstances, and had he crossed the line just that once, then the next time something came up that was so demanding and critical, it would have been so much easier to cross the line again."

How often do we us our own “extenuating circumstances” as an excuse to break this or any other of the commandments? Again, I ask the question, “What sign do we want to give to God?”

I think that this quote from President Monson’s latest general conference address is another way to clarify our choices: “May we ever choose the harder right instead of the easier wrong.”

I pray that one of the things that we can fly home with today is a desire to be better at keeping the Sabbath Day Holy, to make it a Delight so that the Lord may bless us with the fullness of the earth.

In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen